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| Mon, 11-29-2010 - 1:49pm |
Hi everyone,
I was cleaning.....going through some old work reports etc and I found an old journal.
| Mon, 11-29-2010 - 1:49pm |
Hi everyone,
I was cleaning.....going through some old work reports etc and I found an old journal.
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Dangit MC.
Yes I remember you were in a LTA too. I am Day 17NC woot woot !!!
I understand what you are saying, I can not focus on anything else at this time. I have to concentrate on remaining NC. The hard work will come later.
Thank you for your support.
MC
Thanks for the hug. I do feel so much better in just a few weeks. Yes, we need a new way to deal with our problems. The A didn't work for us ...thats for sure!
I know we are going to have a much happier future. We just need to be strong.
MC
MC,
I cannot help but wonder if this isn’t at least part of what is bringing on the urges you expressed today in another thread.
Many of us come to the harsh realization that our A was a distraction from the problems in our life. When the going got tough for many of us, we escaped into A land for a reprieve. That way we could avoid doing the real work and we could avoid making any necessary decisions/changes in our life.
It was our MO to fall back on the distraction we created until of course that distraction became a problem too.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.