wavering.. i want to call him

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
wavering.. i want to call him
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Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:28am

I'm missing him today...heavy thoughts, crying spells...feeling so sad and lonely..

I dont want to break NC.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:37am

Oh MC!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:42am

Good job (((mc))))

You recognized the urge, and took concrete steps to keep yourself safe. Remember that NC mean no NEW hurts.

When you get back, let me know what the heck "a Timmys" is!

Bodhi

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-19-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:45am

Hey MC,

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-23-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 11:46am

OHHHHHH NOOOOOO YOUUUUUUU DONNNNNN'T.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 12:00pm
Mc that three week mark is a killer. You will get past this. There is nothing he can say or you can hear that is going to make you feel better. Ride this out. You are doing a great job. And I want to know what a timmy is too!!
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 12:17pm

MC-

You might think you want to call him, but I would guess what you _really_ want is some sort of relief from the pressure and confusion that is building up inside of you.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 12:35pm

MC,

Congrats on 18 days NC!!!

It’s part of the process and there unfortunately will be days like this in the early days of NC. You have some great ideas of how to redirect your energy towards more positive endeavors.

Also have you checked out the 48 Hour Rule in the HL?

http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/The-Healing-Library/The-48-Hour-Rule/m-p/107969117#U107969117

Much love and big hugs,

E1

Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 2:17pm

MC,

Learn from me and my mishap!

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-25-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 2:25pm

Don't do it! I'm counting my NC in hours, but you actually have 18 days under your belt. I hope we can both be strong, and then you can be there for me when I'm at 18 days and wavering.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Tue, 11-30-2010 - 6:19pm

Again thank you everyone for your love and support...

I got out of the house......away from temptation and I am ok now.

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