Red Tape!!!!!!!!!!!! - Trigs!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Red Tape!!!!!!!!!!!! - Trigs!
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Thu, 10-06-2005 - 4:34pm

WHY does there have to be so many hands in one pot?!?!?!?!? all i want is to get ex to pay more support. supposedly this will help with my stability among other things.


so, i jump through hoops and make phone calls to get all this done. only to find out that i have to email people and call more people who will put me in touch with yet more people to possibly be able to help me and if they can't then i have to go back to the person i emailed and start all over again!!!!!!!!


i'm sick of jumping through all the hoops! it's like it's getting me nowhere anyway so why am i wasting the energy????


WHY can't i do just one thing right?????? Get one thing to go my way?????? i'm doing what i'm told and it just keeps going......onto the next person.....and the next.....and the next. i barely have enough stamina left to deal with one let alone all these additional people that have been thrown in.


i'm done! i can't take anymore of this crap! i'll see what this latest round of "legal assistance" yields, but if i end up back with the email contact, i think that will be the end of it and the stupid x will win out 'cause then i would have to pay for the legal services and well........that just isn't a possibility. i just can't do all this anymore. there's too much on me and i can't deal with it all. had a bad session w/ tdoc last night so don't really want to call her right now. there's another reason but won't get into that.


i've tried being strong and handling it all, but i'm crumbling underneath it all and don't know how to stop it. i'm just sick of it all.


thanks for listening to my rants ladies. sorry if i've let any of you down.


traci

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Thu, 10-06-2005 - 5:04pm

I feel for you Traci, I have been there

 
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 9:15am

traci,

please give yourself a break! you haven't let anyone down...you're just having a really bad time right now...its enough to make any one of us a mess. Take a break for the weekend...try to spend time with the kids, get your mind off all of this...you need a break.

love and hugs,

keli

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 9:38am

Traci


I'm so sorry...this is ridiculous.

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:15am

thanks tina, keli and donna.


i had hoped today would be better, but it's pouring down rain, humid as all get out, and i think a/f is on the way. my mood is getting dangerously low and i'm just counting seconds to get through minutes. and that's even getting hard.


love & hugs,
traci

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 12:22pm

Traci,


I know what you mean about the red tape--will keep my fingers crossed and sending prayers to the ethers you get the help you need NOW.