Saw him this morning...:(

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Saw him this morning...:(
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Sun, 12-05-2010 - 11:05am

So H is working this morning (and last night had to leave to go pick up a work truck when we were supposed to be watching a movie) so I decided to get myself a coffee (love my Tim Hortons but this morning was craving a Starbucks Peppermint Mocha) and then go do some Christmas shopping.

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 11:14am

Cait - Be brave dear friend -

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Sun, 12-05-2010 - 11:36am

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Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Sun, 12-05-2010 - 12:11pm

Cait you did manage to walk away and that is fantastic, you also pushed him away and let him know you would cause a scene if he didn't leave.

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Sun, 12-05-2010 - 12:20pm

(((((Cait)))))!

I'm with Always....I want to take him down!

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 12:24pm
Always - You are an amazing translator - I'm sorry to hijack - but seriously - BEST TRANSLATIONS I HAVE READ IN A LONG TIME! Nothing like getting a clear message to help keep reality in focus!
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Sun, 12-05-2010 - 2:06pm

((Cait)))

I know this encounter shook you up pretty good but I also believe things happen for a reason. You NEEDED to see this JAM for who is really is. Instead of asking you to forgive him or that he was sorry for being such a prick, he tries to kiss you and then has the audacity to say he wants to give this another try? Can you get any more insulting? Alwayst totally translated his words and selfish actions perfectly. I was thinking all the same things before I got to her post. It reminded me of when my XMM, after 5 years, grabbed me and planted one on my mouth the day before he was to have major surgery. It made me sick to my stomach. I wanted to kick him in the jewels but instead grabbed my purse off of my desk and walked out of the office. I wouldn't see him again for 3 weeks and whenever he called the office to check up on things, I was cold as ice. HE KNEW he had crossed a boundary I had firmly in place, and we never discussed what happened again. I did send him an email just before he returned to work and told him that if he ever tries that again to expect my resignation.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 10-17-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 3:03pm

(((((((CAIT)))))))))),

This happened as Iddy says for a reason!

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Registered: 05-15-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 3:43pm

Cait ..that guy is a d**k head...I would like to punch him out too.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 5:26pm

Ohhhhh ((((Cait)))))))))

The ghost speaks....

Im so sorry you had to deal with this - I KNOW how you've been feeling!

YOU DID GOOD THOUGH! YOU DID GOOD! YOU DID GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!

He really had NO remorse for failing you even as a friend, did he? SELFISH SELFISH SELFISH.

He "misses" you.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Sun, 12-05-2010 - 5:58pm

wow! Cait!!!!

I hadnt read all the responses you got (Always! right on!!!) but once I did...

EVERYONE WANTED TO PUNCH THE CRAP OUT OF HIM!!!!

HAHHAHA. IVE NEVER SEEN EVERYONE BECOME SO PHYSICALLY THREATENING!!!

Sooo if nothing else, Cait....youve got "HOMIES". hahahhahahahah

Much love!!!

Michelle

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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