I'm opening a Whinery!

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I'm opening a Whinery!
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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:16pm

Same old stuff--still fighting bronchitis, it's not super bad, just the kind that drains every bit of energy from you with constant DEEP coughing.

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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:22pm

Hugs, Marci...sorry you're still feeling so lousy...

I'm kinda with you about them sending Jake to the farm version...sure would help things out a bunch, huh? I think it would definitely help Jen "make her decision" that he is a bit immature for her. She's going to, just wait and see.

Hope the doc's office calls you back today, this is just getting out of hand! Ridiculous you have to be so sick already for them to see you. I'm so sorry. Its making you feel MORE depressed, I know.

Hang in there, and whine away...today is your day for whine and cheese, I had my fill yesterday!

Love and hugs,

Keli

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Registered: 07-21-2005
Tue, 10-11-2005 - 2:35pm

Hey Marci,

sorry you are feeling so crappy. It will get better though, hopefully sooner than later. In your post you said
"Still haven't had a call back from the doc's office (it would have shown on caller ID, even if they'd hung up without leaving a message). I'm calling back AGAIN--"
I know at my Dr.'s office they have a rule that if you are sick you are supposed to be seen within 24 hours, I heard this from my doc after waiting a week and a half for an appointment. SOoooooo I dont know if this is just an office rule, or a legal thing or what it is, but chances are your doc has something similar, I would call and find out, and talk to a different person than usual, maybe that is all it takes, ask to speak to the head nurse, or whoever is there....put a fire under their butt :)
As far as DD and Jake goes, I dont want to overstep but I will say btdt, I got married when I was 18, to someone very very similar to what I know about Jake, I had a full scholarship to a private college and we got married, he fell into drugs/drinking and got in trouble with the police, I got kicked out of school(we lived in married housing on campus) lost my scholarship and then had was homeless, found out I was pregnant with DS while I was homeless, after he was born I left, then bc of other crap, I had to take him back , then got pregnant with DD, then when she was little left again, and THEN he finally went into rehab, but has been a pain in my butt ever since, no child support, no consistent visitation etc etc. My ex wasnt necessarily a mean guy, he was very sweet, just really immature and never had a chance to make something of himself, and you know how they say if you try to bring someone up to you, they will only end up bringing you down, well thats EXACTLY what happened.

Soooooooooo you can tell her that and let her know what could be in store for her. Its not fun its not pretty and here I am finally remarried at 28, and STILL trying to get a bachelor's degree 10 years later, and I dont want that to happen to her if she can avoid it. One thing that I needed to hear back then that no one told me was that, although I may love him now, things will change over time and I will not love the same things about him, and when the love goes away, is he someone I want to share my life with?

Anyways sorry I wrote a book...I have been wanting to tell you all of this but didnt feel like you needed to hear from me, but now I cant help it anymore ;x

Good luck with everything
Love and hugs
Rebekah

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Tue, 10-11-2005 - 3:20pm

(((Marci)))


I'll bring the cheese and we can whine together !!!!


I'm so sorry you are sick...hate that !!

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