writing to heal and hi everyone....

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Registered: 11-10-2010
writing to heal and hi everyone....
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Thu, 12-09-2010 - 6:48pm

I haven't posted much, but I have been reading every day.

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 7:36pm

I'm very, very proud of you. Voldemort has left the building! I know exactly how you feel right now, I'm self employed also. When I ended my A this past summer, I got very behind in my work. But you will find with each new day you will accomplish a little more. I was actually very grateful that I was the boss so I could come and go as I needed to, and I did that a LOT at first.

Thank you for sharing your writing therapy. Journaling is a wonderful thing. Another thing for you to try that helps me is to write your own "next chapter". Write what you will be doing in a month - make it all up! But only be positive.


That light up ahead isn't an oncoming train. It's all of us holding a candle and waiting for you :) We can see you coming! But good Lord woman, take a shower - I can smell you from here ;)

Bodhi

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Registered: 11-10-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 7:40pm
Thanks, Bodhi. :D You made my day. I really needed that.

I will at least change into clean pajamas. Lol
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 7:48pm

It's a step in the right direction! :) You're going to be just fine, I can tell. Keep doing what you are doing. Before you know it 2 weeks will be 2 months.

Bodhi

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 8:35pm

Unbreakme,

I am so glad you mustered up the strength to drop us a post and let us know you are still walking the walk, even if it's only around the room.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 04-01-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 8:42pm

UBM,

I have to tell you the smile on my face kept growing broader as I read through your post. I am so proud of you and so encouraged by your determination and faith in this process. And I love your humor!! You really are going to be okay. I can't wait to read your next post....I'm hoping you will have showered by then, though. :smileytongue:

~alwayst2

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Registered: 07-13-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 10:00pm
Wow...thank you for posting what you did..I too am just over 2 weeks NC...it is soooo difficult and some days its a fight not to give in and make contact. But each day of NC takes us further further away from the pain of the A and closer to peace and. Brighter future...I'm going to try your writing exercise, thanks for sharing! Hugs to you, tomorrow will be a better day!
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Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 10:09pm

Hi U Break Me,

The first two weeks are very difficult.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2010
Thu, 12-09-2010 - 10:35pm

Thanks everyone, I see flickers of the real me returning a little here and there and it helps.

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Registered: 09-23-2010
Fri, 12-10-2010 - 10:06am

(((UM)))

I don't think there is anything more for me to add.

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Registered: 10-19-2010
Fri, 12-10-2010 - 4:34pm

Hey there Unbreakable me!

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