I feel so Mean!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2004
I feel so Mean!
3
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 12:50pm

Jake is in the jail down south now--has his 1st hearing on the probation violation Nov 7th.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: cl_kcisis
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 12:58pm

Marci,

You're not mean, you are simply being realistic. Jake has to learn that he has to stand on his own now for a while...I know its harsh, and we all hate it too for him, but it is what it is for right now.

You hang in there, and do what you have to do. He will understand if he has grown up any through this.

You're right about his parents, too! That's just wrong.

Love and Hugs,

Keli

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2005
In reply to: cl_kcisis
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 1:46pm

you pretty much said what i was going to....


Hang in there Marci.

Image hosted by Photobucket.com
Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

God could not be everywhere, so

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2003
In reply to: cl_kcisis
Wed, 10-26-2005 - 9:06pm

((((((((((((Marci)))))))))))) you are NOT being mean. As Keli and Donna have both said you are being realistic. Jake knows you and Jen well enough to know that you can't afford to support him. He just needs to accept that fact. There's a huge gap between knowledge and acceptance. I know you and know you will do what you can for him. But PLEASE don't beat yourself up over this. As much as you care for Jake, you have your own family to look after first.


I hope you are feeling better this evening:)


Love & Hugs,
Traci