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Registered: 03-25-2003
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Thu, 10-27-2005 - 10:08am

for your kind support. I feel like I am blowing this out of proportion, but I am home alone and feel so scared. Doors are locked, but still dont feel safe. Pretty sad when I cant feel safe in my own house in a very small town. This is why I moved to a small town. My dh is floored. Not sure what to do. This is the man who is supposed to coach my sons ballteam next summer, my dh said he wont allow this (my dh is the head of the little league). My depression is great. My husband wants to press charges - for tresspass and possibly assault because he did not quit touching me right away. There is also another woman in town who said he did this to her, but we all blew her off (but that is why I would not let him in my house). I just dont want the rumors around town about me. Its hard enough to live in fear in my home but to have people in town look at me funny would be worse. I'm going to go curl back up into my fetal position.

Jen

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Thu, 10-27-2005 - 10:12am

well...if he did this before...then I highly doubt the town is going to look at you at all !!!

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Thu, 10-27-2005 - 11:20am
sweetheart there were times i didn't feel safe in my own neighborhood just for fear of seeing someone on the street.there is nothing wrong with how youre feeling.i wish your dh would beat the **** out of him but that's just me.
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Registered: 11-18-2003
Thu, 10-27-2005 - 11:27am

(((((((Jen)))))))) I can't add much more to what Donna has already written. But I totally agree with her. This guy needs to be stopped. If he's done it before, he'll do it again. And it is quite possible there is a record. Small towns are great.......as long as the residents aren't creepy freaks like this guy. I grew up in a small town and the freedom was awesome. It so sucks that you and your family have been robbed of that by this jerk. I wish I could give that back to you.


Hang in there sweetie and know that we are right here for you and the cops are but a phone call away. Don't hesitate! If he shows up knocking on your door tell him to leave and that you are calling the law. Keep us posted.


Love & Hugs,
Traci