did it guys. Today is day one

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2010
did it guys. Today is day one
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Thu, 12-16-2010 - 6:33pm

I felt such an immediate decrease in my overall anxiety.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 6:51pm

Bravo...although I know the last thing you feel like doing is celebrating. In answer to your question about silence, here is a motto we say a lot around here.

"Silence is eloquent, silence is dignified, silence is heard."

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 7:17pm

Congratulations on day 1!!!


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 8:58pm
Yay Wishes!! Now you won't be just wishing for peace, you will be making the choices that will bring you that very thing. I am 3 weeks NC and am amazed at the relief and peace I have felt already. YES it is difficult, but push through the hard times, you will make it and have a wonderful future in front of you. I'm proud of you!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 10:10pm

Hi Wishes,

Good for you !!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-09-2010
Thu, 12-16-2010 - 11:28pm

Markscloud, but I DO want him!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2009
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 12:18am

Wishes

NO YOU DONT Want him. I'll tell you why. I work with my XMM. He is my boss. Our A last 2 1/2 years until he decided he was leaving his wife for me. BIG MISTAKE. He moved out but 2 weeks later he move back in with her. That was almost three years to the day we started the A, Don't lose 3 years of your life waiting for a fantasy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Fri, 12-17-2010 - 10:15am
Hi wishes,

Silence is respect, the best gift you can give yourself. Whisper to yourself and loudley that you are fighting for yourself because you are worth fighting for:)
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2010
Mon, 12-20-2010 - 3:08pm

Wishes, I am super-proud of you.