He's done it again!!!!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
He's done it again!!!!
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Tue, 11-01-2005 - 7:45pm

Xh has sent me over the top yet again!!!!!!!! Child support was due today and once again there was no check. I saw him online and asked him point blank if it was supposed to be on time (thinking maybe it was delayed by the post office), but Nooooooo, he "forgot" to tell me I won't get the check until the end of this week...or thereabouts! And of course it's because of the gas prices 2 months ago that have created this problem........blame it on whatever he can as long as it doesn't reflect on him!


I need like $100,000 to miraculously fall into my lap to retain a lawyer (since I can't get help from legal aid) and take this sorry sob to court and get more child support. Oh, wait........if I had a hundred grand I wouldn't NEED to do this! God I hate him! Good thing I meet with tdoc tomorrow.


Cooling my heels
Traci

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Tue, 11-01-2005 - 8:20pm

Traci,


I'm so sorry--I wish I had a $100,000 and then some to pass on, but unfortunately I don't--they had the nerve to give away my 340 million to somebody else!


Don't know if you're a country fan or not, but even if you're not try to find a copy of "Child Support" came out in 87 or 88 by Barbara Mandrell, I think.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 7:00am

Traci,

I'm really sorry this happened yet again. Keep cooling your heels and don't let it cause you to have an episode! He isn't worth that!

How are you today? Did you sleep okay last night?

Safe?

Love you.

Keli

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 7:48am

(((Traci))))


^^^breathe my friend^^^^


I hope you were able to cool off last night...I so know how you feel and what you are going thru.

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 8:24am

Thanks everyone. I did sleep, but not as well as I had been. Gee, I'm shocked. LOL!


I'm really trying to stay focused here, because I can feel my moods starting to shift and I really don't want that to happen and plan on fighting it every inch of the way! I know he's not worth it and I don't plan on giving him that satisfaction.


I just need to figure out what to do next. Because I can't let him continue to roll on me like this. I asked him again about the bankruptcy and he STILL hasn't decided yet. So, I need somehow to make the decision for him.......so to speak. I figure if I can find a lawyer and take him to court, that will force him into a decision on that.....IF he's as bad off as he claims. I'm starting to wonder, because his social life seems to be doing very well. Taking women out to dinner and bars, etc. If he's so poor, how can he afford that? Ah well. Just another tangent for me to go on.


But, for right now, I am safe, I am trying to remain calm and trying to remember to breathe. <~~~~I've been told this helps;) Thanks for listening everyone.


Love Y'all!
Traci