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P&PT please
| Thu, 11-03-2005 - 6:49pm |
I'm not one to pray or even sure if I believe in it, but I'm asking anyway. Dh is supposed to go to his assessment tomorrow morning. I'm hoping they will either hospitalize him or at least get a psych evaluation & start depakote or something else that will pull him out (I know he will not take lithium).
Keli,
If you read this ... when you came out of your mania, had you made any emotional attachments during your time away? What made you realize it was time for you to go back to your x?
Bonnie

Bonnie,
I was thinking of you this morning on my way in, knowing today was the day. Many p&pt coming your way...they can't hurt...
As for me...I did most of my "stuff" while at home...I never left...when we finally separated, my dh left me...but that's another story...as for emotional attachments, honey, i made MANY...when I was manic, I thought I was in love three times...but it wasn't the kind of love that ends marriages...I was just thinking the other day about this one "relationship" I had...and thought to myself, omg, that was soooooo "puppy love", but at the time, I thought it was so true love...
They all fizzled out. When I hit bottom, my dh was the only one I wanted to help me up...he was the ONLY constant in my life, and he was the one I turned to. We both had made mistakes though, and he felt the same way...we sorta hit bottom together, though in different ways.
You hang in there and keep the faith. I know its hard. I know its soooooo hard, and so very scary for you right now...we all talk a lot about you going on with your life, and that IS important...but right now, this very moment in time, you want your dh back...your marriage back together...and that's okay.
I hope your dh is hospitalized today. Its for the best. He can get the help he needs. If he's not, he can still be helped, so don't be upset if it doesn't happen.
Love and Hugs,
Keli
Sending lots of p&pt your way...and like Keli said...it sure can't hurt.
Let us know how it goes today....I'm sure everyone here is thinking about you/dh.
God could not be everywhere, so
I am saying a prayer for your family right now. Hugs.
Missy
Bonnie,
You've got it--both that they will dx him correctly and that he has the wisdom to accept both the dx and treatment!
Hugs,
Marci