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Having a hard time...
| Wed, 12-22-2010 - 11:38am |
I kept checking his fb page yesterday and this morning.
| Wed, 12-22-2010 - 11:38am |
I kept checking his fb page yesterday and this morning.
Hugs!
Hi Livin,
aww sorry you are having a bad day.
Livin, I feel bad for you and sorry you're struggling.
Keep reminding yourself the only thing to be gained by checking on him is hours of misery. You don't want that for yourself. The obsessive ruminating over him might be painful but it must be more tolerable than the years of anguish ahead of you if you were to re-enter the A.
You made a decision that was painful but right for you...I'm guessing, that like everyone here, you didn't make it easily. You made it because being in the A was just unbearable.
Don't add to your hurt, sweet....take the advice of Bodhi (and I think thanks go to Iddy? for the idea) - step away from the computer, get a big notepad and some fluoro happy crayons, and fill up a circle with all the happy things and blessings you have right in front of you.
Then stick it on your fridge.
Thinking of you from the other side of the world! xxx
Thanks to all of you for your support.