D-day is a cold shower

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2010
D-day is a cold shower
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Thu, 12-23-2010 - 8:43am

Well, it happened to me.

After

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2002
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 9:31am
Good words. Is it too late for marriage counseling?
Merry Christmas!
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 9:32am

FL,

I echo what you are saying.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 10:31am

FL -

This is such a reality check for every married person here. NC does not make you immune to the devastation of a d-day. As a single girl, it also reminds me that I could very well still be on the other end of a d-day if xap's W ever figured anyting out. My thoughts are with you FL.

Bodhi

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 10:51am

This may be a good thread to ask this question:

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 11:14am

Dear mm...

I too once was of your line of thinking. If I/both parties have ended & moved on why tell? Now being

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2006
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 12:36pm

Wow.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 3:22pm

Feelinlousy-

I am so sorry for your pain.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 3:32pm

Hi FL,

So sorry for the pain that is resonating through your family from the fallout of the D-day bomb. I also extend the offer of contacting me if I can help in any way. I know there were times that you felt the replies you received on the board were harsh, however the intent was always to encourage you to face the reality of the situation and to take responsibility for the actions that you own.

Out of all that you have written the thing I concur with the most is: <>

I too had a D-day after I ended my A. Our M did survive with a lot of hard work (which we continue to do to this day) from both of us.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 5:39pm

OMG FL!!!!!!

I am SOOOOO sorry, so sorry!

I have been 'missing' EMM lately, well the fantasy BS anyway, and this post yanked me back into reality. I know your story is VERY similar to mine, so this really hit home, thank you for sharing your pain to help others.

I don't know what to say to you, because i couldn't begin to imagine what you are going through, other than i wish your H finds it in his heart to forgive you. Did your H tell your children? immediate family?

I am thinking of you.

((((Hugs)))))
V888

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 5:42pm

Thank you all of you for your kind words of encouragement. They mean so much to me right now as I am feeling absolutely horrible about myself.

E1-I have read and re-read your reply.

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