Congrats CSN :)

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Congrats CSN :)
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Thu, 12-23-2010 - 1:09pm

I know you don't feel like celebrating because of the d-day fallout, but regardless, 1 year is an amazing accomplishment. You have helped me and so many others along the way.

Congrats on becoming a Vet!

""Every new day is another chance to change your life." ~ Unknown

Love,

Bodhi

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 2:30pm

Thank you, Bodhi!

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Registered: 05-15-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 2:42pm

Hi CSN,

Congratulations on becoming a Vet.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 3:54pm

Congrats. CSN! It’s been a long road with many storms but you have weathered them all! It’s still too early to know one way or another the outcome of your M. My DH left too for a brief time after D-day. Sometimes a separation brings much needed clarity. The fact that you are at peace with the outcome whatever it maybe, shows the hard work you have done on yourself this year.

Much love and big hugs,

E1

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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 11-22-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 4:41pm
((CSN))
I read your post earlier about this being a year NC for you, but considering what you are dealing with, I wasn't sure if you were in a celebratory mood. I didn't want to rub salt into your wounds, so to speak, with a looming separation in the works. This is a very hard place to be in, Couldn't. I know, due to circumstances, you haven't been able to post much or offer support to others, and being a Vet comes with that responsibility. It seems so far like a curse around here....First Dee, and then Luvin, both becoming Vets and now too busy to post. :( I hope that changes when the NY begins.

If you are going to be able to find time to help the newbies this upcoming year, then by all means Welcome to VetVille in the full sense of this honor. Regardless, you have earned it and we are all very proud of you. I just wish it was under more happier circumstances for you.

(((Hugs)))
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 5:13pm

CSN-

BIG VET HUGS!

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Registered: 11-16-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 6:17pm

A BIG congratulations to you CSN!!!

I am SO sorry for the pain you are currently going through now, i couldn't begin to imagine where you are at, but ending the A and having a Dday shows that the worst has peaked, and things can only get better from here. Here's to a new year filled with peace, love and happiness. Thank you SO much for all the support you have given me.

All my love
V888
xxxxx

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 6:57pm

Thanks so much to all of you for your support and warm welcome to Vetville.

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Registered: 09-28-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 8:41pm
My hugs & well wishes to you CSN. I think more than anyone on this board right now, you know how I feel. I think we among the few (along with Foggy) who really really WANT to stay married, and are/were willing to do anything to make that happen, but who aren't with those spouses right now ... so I feel your pain, and I know you feel mine. Kids in the middle for us, and knowing/feeling that we couldn't have possibly done anything more unfathomable to end a family. I hope for you that you are able to work through things with your H, but I now know like you, that a full life awaits us either way - reconciliation or not.

Much Love,

TU.
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Thu, 12-23-2010 - 11:05pm

CONGRATS!!! My fellow class of 2009 Vet. So happy you made it and you have been a major asset on this board. YOU will be ok, no matter what. WE all have ya back, blessings to you.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Fri, 12-24-2010 - 7:54am

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha

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