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| Thu, 12-23-2010 - 6:03pm |
.I've been MIA during my sickness (thanks to all of you for the well wishes) and I am overwhelmed at the mass breakage of NC -
| Thu, 12-23-2010 - 6:03pm |
.I've been MIA during my sickness (thanks to all of you for the well wishes) and I am overwhelmed at the mass breakage of NC -
I also want to remind those breaking NC by fishing ... that not only have your actions hurt you & set you back in your healing journey, they are also selfish as they show NO immediate concern for your Spouses, family, nor your xAP, or the family of your xAP.
It is just selfish behaviour all around, and hurts many ...
With Care,
TU.
Me too.....I have barely been around, reading not posting as much. Its like things went bad quick. I am feeling like.....dangggggg.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
(((Lolly)))
Feel better, honey. I hope you are well enough to enjoy tomorrow with your family.
(((Hugs))
TU,
I wanted to let you know Im grateful that you approach your behavior in the A with SUCH PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. Especially calling it selfish.
That has helped me let sink in DEEPLY, everytime I have those pity thoughts, "why me, poor me"....that I HAVE NO RIGHT to someone else's mate's time, feelings, actions, care, etc.
Your leadership in the selfishness area - by exposing that ugliness - has HELPED ME IN SPADES to RECOGNIZE MY OWN.
Thank you for your unintended Gift to Michelle! :)
xo
Take heart!
wondering if you ever meant anything is so common around here. Ya wonder why they have not contacting you. Very normal. Try to look at it like this....does it matter? its over, so even if he is just crazy over you ending things and he is so hurt and distraught and losing sleep, would you want to start up again? If you want this to be over and I mean really over, than you keep plugging along as best you can. Very normal to feel like you do, as long as you do not linger there too long.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida