what should be my next move?

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Registered: 03-25-2003
what should be my next move?
Fri, 11-18-2005 - 9:44am
when i think i'm in charge i find out i'm not.
people can reduce me with half a sentence.
last night my husband came home screaming & yelling & when i told him to move out he said well if i moved out then there wouldn't be any adults awake in the house since you are always sleeping.so i told him i didn't love him anymore.this morning he ordered me not to be angry with him any more.yes sir..i said.
as for the bored man who thinks orgasm is my cure & intermitently shows up or calls...what do i do?telling him to go away.telling him it makes me unhappy when he talks that way doesn't do it.i don't want to arouse suspicion with my family by suddenly making a big deal of this.now his kid & my kid are friends.
should i start making him uncomfortable?should i speak of ME getting hurt?should i outright ask him what it is he DOESN'T get from wifey that makes him come to me?
what would you do?
see if i was manic i'd feel in ultimate power & control that's how i can tell i'm not.
which is actually better?