She's in a hotel !!!!

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She's in a hotel !!!!
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Mon, 12-05-2005 - 1:05pm

She was supposed to fly out yesterday & she would not go. He says he stayed up with her all night trying to keep her alive. This morning he became fed up, said if she wants to die it's her choice, packed her things & took her to a hotel.

He has an appointment at 4:30PM tomorrow with his addictive councelor. He is packing a bag & taking it with him. If the only way to see a psychiatrist is to check himself into the hospital he'll do it.

(The lady who put him on the anti-psychotics was a psychiatric nurse, not a psychiatrist. We did not realize that. She's trying to get him in to see a psychiatrist but hasn't been able to get him an fast appointment yet.)

THIS WAS HELL, BUT AT LEAST I KNOW NOW, IF HE CANNOT TAKE LIFE SERIOUSLY ENOUGH NOW, THEN HE NEVER WILL. I've been waiting years for him to hit bottom & take this illness seriously, hopefully the payoff will be as wonderful as I've ever dreamed. Perhaps this is why I've never taken this A as seriously as other betrayed, because I knew there was hope in the end of a better life. I did get scared the better life was not going to be with me, but now I believe it might be.

Thanks for all your support!

Bonnie




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Mon, 12-05-2005 - 1:44pm

sounds like progress....i was waiting for him to finally realize he can/can't control what she does/doesn't do.

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Mon, 12-05-2005 - 2:07pm

I agree with Donna...its time he realizes this is not HIS fault...she is/was the OW after all...and whether she lives or dies is up to her...period.

SHE IS MANIPULATING HIM.

I hope he sticks to it.

Love and Hugs,

Keli

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Mon, 12-05-2005 - 4:21pm

That's wonderful, Bonnie! Yes, there is hope of a better life with him. I hope he can get on the right meds. that will work for him.

Hang in there,
Lori