I'm still here and feeling unhappy
Find a Conversation
I'm still here and feeling unhappy
| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 11:32am |
I am wondering if I am stable enough to be having this baby? I am also unhappy with my DH. All he wants to do is play is stupid computer games for hours and hours. Lately, he has started getting irritable with me if I ask him to do something while he is playing-which is ALL THE TIME. He won't give an inch. We have been behaving more like room mates than a married couple lately. I see him maybe twice an evening and he comes to bed long after I have already fallen asleep every night. Talking to him about it is a waste of time. His attitude is if it's not bothering him, then I am over reacting(again)and won't even try to see my side. He just keeps repeating that I should just "relax". I'm really sick of hearing that. Now he just assumes that every emotion I have is just "Jodie being b----y again". I admit I do over react some but not to this extent. Does EVERYTHING I do have to be illness??
To top if off my mother keep fluctuating from-you'll be a good mom to-you're going to be a terrible mom. Things have to change or I'm going to go nuts!
Jodie
To top if off my mother keep fluctuating from-you'll be a good mom to-you're going to be a terrible mom. Things have to change or I'm going to go nuts!
Jodie

(((((((((((((Jodie)))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry everyone is being so INCONSIDERATE !!!
God could not be everywhere, so
ditto to what donna said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jodie, honey, OF COURSE you're stable enough to have this baby! Your dh is being a child...he's doing it while he can...idiot man that he is...he's got to grow up and he knows it...it just sucks, cuz YOU have no choice right now...you're the one going through the emotions, the changes, all of it...on TOP of being BP.
Don't listen to your mom. She's feeding you crap, and if you listen to her, you really WILL go nuts.
Take it a day at a time or even slower than that...and let us support you, okay?
I've been missing you and thinking about you alot...you gotta be tough to do this, but we already know how tough you are. Hang in there.
KEEP IN TOUCH!
Love ya,
Keli
You are certainly right about my emotions! They have never been stronger.
I think I will talk to my DH again tonight. He promised he wouldn't play his games when the baby is born, but I'm not sure if it's a promise he can/will keep. We both married rather late and we are soooo set in our ways. Changing for both of us is going to be difficult.
As for my mother-hmmm...what can I say? She's more bi-polar than I am. I have been avoiding her lately. It seems every time we are together for more than a few mintues, she starts in on me about everything and everyone else around her. She wants to be the baby's caregiver when I am working, but she screams and yells so much at everyone (not just me)I am beginning to think he/she would be better off in daycare. She makes me look like the epitome of stability.
What a mess. At least the baby is not due until July 6th. Nearly 7 more months to worry.
I just want to be a good mom and not give the baby the type of childhood I had.
Jodie
Jodie
hon...the fact you know you want to be a better mom is going to help a ton !!!
God could not be everywhere, so