we had another situation today

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we had another situation today
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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 9:51am
where i had to blow my top to get something done & h swore it wouldn't happen again.then he wanted to talk & i refused to till we are in the the therapists office.
he wouldn't let up.
he said it changes.we forget the past & go foward.i said i can't forget.i can't forget that creditors call me cause you put my name on a credit card & ruined my credit.i can't forget being treated like an imbecile for years...
he said..i have always supported you...i lost it.
you did NOT...you waited till i broke & THEN you swept the pieces up off the floor just like you do with everything else.
he refuses to separarate.outright not giving me the option.
i'm nervous manic & depressed all at the same time.he thinks the children need a happy family.is this a happy family?his whole stupid family has always been delusional.
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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 10:07am

sorry hon...i'm not in a very good place, so i can't say much but that i love u and i'm here for you...keep us posted about the tdoc appt.

k.

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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 10:29am

this may be a little personal, but who's name is on the house?

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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 10:45am
i'm sorry keli....hugs to you...
anyway...its actually my mothers name...BUT she would never do that...it's gotta be civilized.
i'd never survive w/ these 3 kids sick all the time & my mother is like..you'll never get a new husband w/ all your baggage(haha)i think it's the bad shape the house is in that makes everyone sick.i'd like to sell & get a newer smaller house.THAT would would be a change & it would have to not include him.unfortunately i'm a jewish american princess who got married & then got dropped(family sighed a collected sigh of releif...so i have never had to take care of myself completely much less 3 little ones.i'm an idiot.SO anyway...
i just moved all the furniture in my kids overstuffed sloppy room...w/out taking anything out of drawers or off shelves.i did the other kids last night.is that manic?it's kind of nuts.the stuff is ancient & heavy.the last time i did that was after 9/11 i think.i should be 90 pounds.but i'm not.
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Wed, 01-04-2006 - 10:51am

Does your mother have ANY idea what he's done to you?

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