H reinstated .... FINALLY!!
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| Tue, 01-10-2006 - 7:56pm |
H starts work on Thursday. He is on final written notice & H believes they are looking for anything to fire him. His goal is to stick around for 2 mos (4 paycheck stubs) so we can refninance and try to hide the 10K he racked up on his 'little' manic episode. The VP of his department is flying in to talk to him on Thur. I'm sort of excited having him work out of the house again. I think we may need that moment of separation. It's been nice having us both work from home, but H just doesn't seem to understand there is a difference to between quality & quantity time. So hopefully this way we'll be having more quality rather than quantity.
Just in time too. I am finishing up my 5mo work project and now I'll be hitting my slow season and not bring in a whole lot of money. Normally we have our savings for the slow season, so things are still going to be tight seeing I just wiped out our savings paying the last set of bills.
We actually went out this weekend! We went bowling. We haven't done that since our early years together.
We went to MC on Thurday & it was really hard on me. So on Friday morning I decided I needed to take an emotional break. I allowed myself to be grumpy, moody & cry whenever I felt like it. I explained to H what I was doing, I was not giving up on us but needed a day from being strong. Wow, it seem to wake something up in him. Every since he's been talking to me like a human again and even looking at me in the eyes. We've been laughing, flirting, talking, spending time together.
Although, this could also be b/c I believe he's in hypomania right now. Perhaps things will go back to the way there were when he starts to come down. I'm keeping my eye on Feb 28th, cannot wait until he gets onto a full cocktail.
Bonnie

congrats to dh !!
God could not be everywhere, so
That's great Bonnie, hopefully things will continue to go well. It was nice that you and your H got to go on a date. My DH and I don't go on enough dates, so I am jealous!
Take care,
Lori