I'm not well today

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I'm not well today
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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:11am

ok Keli...you wanted me to do this, here you go !!!


************poss triggs ****************


life sucks...how about that?

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God could not be everywhere, so

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:33am

Donna,


I'm sorry that life is kicking your butt, trying real hard not to go there myself, but Sweetie you know this is BP talking for the most part and that calling your pdoc is probably a good idea.

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 10:50am

Donna - Sorry you are having such a hard time. How old is your dd? I have an 11 yo that I am having a hard time with. I am sure it is not you. Sometimes mothers and thier children just have rough spots. It will get better. I do things with my children I get upset with myself for but they seem to be managing OK most of the time. Remember it is your BP talking and not you. You are a loving, kind mom. I would imagine girls have a hard time with thier moms and it is probably hard on her to have her dad having a baby too.

I will type more later, hopefully. I have sick kids today. Hang in there. I love you.

Missy

 
 
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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 11:20am

Donna,


You know that is your BP and ADD talking. You are a good mom. Sometimes kids can just push the right buttons at the wrong times. You are strong and will get through this. As far as having other children, and thinking of changing jobs, no one but you can make that decision. I get po'd at docs that tell you a version of your test results. BTDT plenty of times. Are they doing a repeat test

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Wed, 01-25-2006 - 1:06pm

(((((((((((Donna))))))))))) I can't add much more than what has already been said, so I'll just repeat and re-iterate........it is your BP and ADD talking right now. I suspect, you are sitting there reading these threads and thinking "god, don't you people understand that I'm just fed up????" the thing is, we DO understand and deep down inside you you know we understand and you also know that calling pdoc is a good idea.


Marci had a great suggestion as far as the drywall goes. We have stuff at our Home Depot all the time and the Lowes advertises classes too. And, I can tell you from helping xh, it's not terribly difficult. messy as all get out, but not hard at all. e-mail me or give me a call if you need to. But, please, for yourself call your pdoc or your tdoc. Life sucks..........it sucks worse when bp is a factor. BUT that doesn't mean we can't have a break or two. This coming from me of all people should at the very least make you smile;)


Hang in there sweetie! Remember that we love you and your kids and dh love you and most importantly..............YOU are a GREAT MOM!!!!!!! So just push the thoughts about never should have had kids right out of that mind of yours!


Love & Hugs,
Traci