DD called & apologized-feel much better
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DD called & apologized-feel much better
| Mon, 02-20-2006 - 12:37pm |
I'd been crying for almost a week non-stop and ready to give up, her remarks cut so deeply.


I'm so glad you two talked...that must be a huge relief !!!
There are plenty of women who did not like being prego....you got one right here !!!
God could not be everywhere, so
I was Jen's age, pg, not married, and BP and not dxed or medicated...omg. It was so bad. I hated EVERY minute of being pg. I worked with 2 other pg women...they were the women who LOVED it and talked non stop about it...I felt like a freak...add to that that my bf, now dh, is black and that just wasn't done in 1990, where I worked. OMG. It was soooo bad. I was horribly depressed and hated it, and wanted it over over over over...then it was over. She'll need so much support afterwards too. I hope she gets into a good tdoc. I wish I did too.
Ya know, if she ever needs someone to talk to who can relate, I can talk to her. I was in her shoes 15 years ago...she can post to me...i wish i had an email...or write me...or call me...something.
I'm happy for you Marci!!!
Love you.
I loved being pregnant only because I felt okay mentally. I was 20, married...if you wanna call it that...bp not diagnosed or medicated either, homeless blah blah blah, the actual pregnancy sucked but the mental part made up for it. I felt "normal" somewhat. Then I had the most horrible ppd and had to go to rehab just to get medication, because there was no mental health anything and only one psychiatrist who charged $100/hr., but then XH took my son and that was a huge mess so I left w/o meds and some other crap. So anyways, I think its pretty normal to hate being pregnant because your body changes so much and especially if she already has mental health issues it makes it harder I think and with Jake being in jail that makes her nuts im sure. I hope she starts doing better and I think a good tdoc will help too . Keep us posted and hugs for you. I am glad you are feeling better
Rebekah
I know how she feels. I hated being pregnant, each and every time. I am glad she and you worked things out and hopefully she will see that tdoc. Sounds like you have a pretty great friend.
Missy