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went ballistic on stupid idiot h
| Thu, 03-02-2006 - 5:20pm |
unfortunately my kids were listening & think i'm going to jail & we're getting a divorce.after i screamed at him i called my mom & screamed somemore...i have NO ONE to talk to.
the idiot took a credit card out in MY NAME & now i got a phone call with some woman telling me chase bank is suing ME for 10,000$...the woman urged me to get my checkbook & settle this & i told her i don't HAVE those funds &i never saw that credit card.
it was a really ugly conversation(see,i have my own bank account & have that amount in it..but its all the money i'll ever have.i have lent my h tons of money,thought i paid all his debts(50,000$ worth...i'm responsible for the house & everything in it.even the wedding rings were in my family)now he does THIS to me???????????????????i called him & screamed & told him the ONLY reason i WASN'T divorcing him was that i would be responsible for the payment.he apologised & said he did what he thought was best & that he would "take care of it"
i was NOT mollified in the least.he said the only reason he never told me was b/c he knew i would react"like this".
so now he has ruined my credit.
great.
i really hate him...this is my life.living with a man i cannot stand who doesnt understand why i won't forgive him his ****ups.
the idiot took a credit card out in MY NAME & now i got a phone call with some woman telling me chase bank is suing ME for 10,000$...the woman urged me to get my checkbook & settle this & i told her i don't HAVE those funds &i never saw that credit card.
it was a really ugly conversation(see,i have my own bank account & have that amount in it..but its all the money i'll ever have.i have lent my h tons of money,thought i paid all his debts(50,000$ worth...i'm responsible for the house & everything in it.even the wedding rings were in my family)now he does THIS to me???????????????????i called him & screamed & told him the ONLY reason i WASN'T divorcing him was that i would be responsible for the payment.he apologised & said he did what he thought was best & that he would "take care of it"
i was NOT mollified in the least.he said the only reason he never told me was b/c he knew i would react"like this".
so now he has ruined my credit.
great.
i really hate him...this is my life.living with a man i cannot stand who doesnt understand why i won't forgive him his ****ups.

Suziq,
That is messed up big time. I think you and us other ladies that are having problems with our men should take Keli's idea and run away somewhere. We could be roomies and share rent ;)
I hope he gets this crap straight, you shouldn't have to pay for what he did.
Do you have family or friends you could live with?
Tina
haha TIna...thats an awesome idea! Im gonna leave the kids with DH and come with. I love him but he's still a man and they are always a pain in the butt. haha.
Rebekah
i love the idea!
where should we go?
as for family ...i am left living in the family home & everyone else moved far away.
my family has never been the kind to take in anyone & their kids.it's just the way it is & it's lousy.
Also financial abuse is a form of domestic abuse. Contact your local domestic abuse center and they may be able to refer you to some resources or advise you.
And he deserved to have you go ballistic and then some. What an A$$.