dh asked for a divorce last night.....

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dh asked for a divorce last night.....
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:45am

I will be scarce for awhile to get my life in order. I will try to lurk. Sorry.

Missy

 
 
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:51am

i'm very sorry missy...i'm kinda feeling like my life is heading the same direction. if you need me, please let me know...i wish you had my numbers. i'm here though all the time...we're all going through such changes...i'm scared too...hang in there...i love you very much.

keli

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 10:55am
he is refusing counseling. I have convinced him to try some online conseling, but he is very negative about it so I am not holding out much hope. Thanks for your thoughts. I wish your life was going better right now. I was so hoping your hospital stay would make you feel so much better.
 
 
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 11:59am

(((((Missy)))),


I'm so sorry to hear this, but Sweetie, don't let it get to you.

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:08pm

(((((Missy))))))
I am so sorry, I know how hard it is to go through that mess with little kids and your whole life depending on the stability of your marriage. Its going to be hard, but Marci is right, you are strong and wonderful and loveable and he is gonna realize that when its too late im sure. We love you and are here for you whenever you need us.

Rebekah

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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:15pm
((((HUGS)))). I'm so sorry you are going through this. I've been divorced. It was very stressful to get through but 5 years down the road I can say it was for the best. But it sure didn't feel that way going through it.
My thoughts will be with you big time. I was disabled, unemployed, had a teenage boy to feed and about $50 to my name. Figure out what resources are out there for you and your kids. In my case just taking care of basic survial kept me from feeling a lot when I was in the thick of things.
((((((((((HUGS))))))))))


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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 12:34pm
(((((((((((((((Missy)))))))))))))))))
I am so so sorry sweetie. I truely am. I wish there were something that I could do to help.
E-mail me through my profile,and I will give you my numbers if you need to vent ok? I have never been through a divorce, but I am def. here for you.
All my love, and prayers,
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