Just need to vent a minute....

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Just need to vent a minute....
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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 10:17am

I am due for af so am feeling lousy. If I don't get it soon, I am going to have it in Vegas, which will suck. Dh has gone from kissing me good bye in the morning to not saying anything to shouting goodbye from across the room. I don't see this as an improvement. Friday during the day went good. Our date night went OK. Until we ran into a friend from nursing school and I mentioned her ex and he said that I might be refering to him that way soon too. It pissed me off and hurt my feelings and made be very upset. He won't answer any of the questions my therapist wanted me to ask him except with "I don't know" so I don't know if me going to therapy is going to do crap. I have an extremely busy week coming up and frankly I am tired. I am always tired when I have PMS and achy. I hate hormones. Can I please have my girl parts just removed?

On a good note, I have no appetite now that the topamax was increased, except I wonder if this is part of why I am so tired too. I was a bad girl and stopped taking the abilify because I hated taking all the meds and spending all the money but I have not noticed any ill effects from that yet (it has been 3 days). I am hoping the topamax is enough to keep my mood stable, if not I will start back up on the abilify. I am still on cymbalta too.

No need to reply to this post. I just needed to vent.

Missy

 
 
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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sun, 03-19-2006 - 1:02pm

"I am due for af so am feeling lousy."
I'm not familiar with this acronym. What is AF?

As for having your girly parts removed. Not to bum you out, but that may not even help. If anything my mood swings have gotten worse since I had my hysterectomy! That doesn't happen to everyone, but for some like me, it does get worse because now your being forced into menopause. I was on HRT (hormone replacement therapy) for a while which helped some. I have a friend who had a hysterectomy and said she never felt better than she did after it. So, just having the girly parts removed is no guarentee it will help.

I wish you the best. CJ

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Sun, 03-19-2006 - 1:45pm

Missy,


Have you tried taking one of the soy-based OTC menopause supplements?

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Sun, 03-19-2006 - 6:29pm

AF is aunt flo or your period. Sorry for any confusion. It was just another way to say I am PMSing.

Missy

 
 
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Mon, 03-20-2006 - 8:44am

Missy


how are you doing today?

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