Today sucks. I had to tell my family

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Today sucks. I had to tell my family
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 10:57am

before my kids do or if my kids need them tommorrow. I just can't stop crying. Why am I worth so little that he won't get counseling? How can he walk away so easily? I have no one now. No job, no close family, no real life friends. How am I going to get through this?

Missy

 
 
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 11:52am

you are NOT worth so little...he is being..well a man.

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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 1:12pm

The interview tommorrow is with a staffing company. I believe the position I am interviewing for is a direct hire position but I need to go because of what other positions they might have come available also. I am a mess and trying to force myself to go buy a cheap business suit for the interview and future interviews, as I don't have one. I figure getting out of the house might help too, I just don't seem to be getting anywhere today. Dh is stopping over tonight to tell the kids,as they want to know why mommy is crying. He just basically yelled at me for telling my mom that he left me. Made me cry some more. But he said he was moving into his moms and would stop by to get his stuff, seems to me he left me. He wants to talk face to face tonight. But I know that once he gets here, he won't want to talk about anything except business, like finances etc. He sounded so relieved last night that it was over. It hurt so much. I will stop using this board to vent like this. I am sorry. I know this is not what this board is for. Gotta go prepare some more cover letters and get a suit, hopefully. Thanks for listening this long.

Missy

 
 
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 1:25pm

I'm so sorry, Missy...I don't know what to say except I'm thinking of you. Don't worry about posting about it here...I know I am more than willing to listen (and I'm sure everyone else feels the same). Good luck with finding a suit and with the cover letters...I know you're strong and will make it through this...

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Rose

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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 1:43pm

do not think for one minute that you can not talk about this here on this board.

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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 6:14pm

missy-

Screw salvation army take his credit card and go buy your self a suit. I nice one, don't forget new shoes and hose if you wear them. He wants to leave, you need a job, the least he can do is buy you a new suit. I know that must sound terrible, but come on have a little fun on his nickel. It may be a bad idea but a fun one, right?

Either way i have found that buying my self something new to wear often lifts my spirits. no matter where i bought said item.

my 2 cents,
christine