He says he will be making his appointment for counseling when he has time, but has yet to do so. He has called or emailed just about everyone else. I am mad that he is not giving our marriage top priority at this point. He acted like everything was just wonderful yesterday. He met me and the kids to run errands and eat lunch. He brought my oldest to a movie, because he knew I did not want to sit through this one. He is talking about all the things we are doing together coming up this summer. He was being affectionate. I was a witch to him yesterday. I fully admit it. I can't keep up with his mood swings and am tired of it. I don't know what I am going to do. He needs to schedule an appointment this week.
i get the whole mood swings thing too and i can't take it...i have lost it on him a couple times...i cannot take those mood swing things...ugh! we are the ones with BP! and that is the whole freaking problem, i guess...
i am not going to let him break me this time...i can't. i won't...somehow.
thank god, i remembered about EAP at work...free therapy for a while, til i can afford it...first appt is thursday at 5 p.m.
sometimes he is loving, then other times he hates me. the point is, as i keep trying to tell him, ITS ALL VERY DIFFERENT THAN IT USED TO BE!!! GIANT RED FLAG.
they are very emotional and do have many mood swings, but won't admit it.
my dh has claimed he's going to quit drinking for awhile...I know he can make it a couple weeks (he did it when ds was born)...just not very confident for after that.
He says he will be making his appointment for counseling when he has time, but has yet to do so. He has called or emailed just about everyone else. I am mad that he is not giving our marriage top priority at this point. He acted like everything was just wonderful yesterday. He met me and the kids to run errands and eat lunch. He brought my oldest to a movie, because he knew I did not want to sit through this one. He is talking about all the things we are doing together coming up this summer. He was being affectionate. I was a witch to him yesterday. I fully admit it. I can't keep up with his mood swings and am tired of it. I don't know what I am going to do. He needs to schedule an appointment this week.
Missy
i get the whole mood swings thing too and i can't take it...i have lost it on him a couple times...i cannot take those mood swing things...ugh! we are the ones with BP! and that is the whole freaking problem, i guess...
i am not going to let him break me this time...i can't. i won't...somehow.
thank god, i remembered about EAP at work...free therapy for a while, til i can afford it...first appt is thursday at 5 p.m.
sometimes he is loving, then other times he hates me. the point is, as i keep trying to tell him, ITS ALL VERY DIFFERENT THAN IT USED TO BE!!! GIANT RED FLAG.
i hate him too.
its not fair, ya know?
they are very emotional and do have many mood swings, but won't admit it.
my dh has claimed he's going to quit drinking for awhile...I know he can make it a couple weeks (he did it when ds was born)...just not very confident for after that.
God could not be everywhere, so