Missy

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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 9:45am
how are things going with dh?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: cl_igemini53182
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 11:28am

He says he will be making his appointment for counseling when he has time, but has yet to do so. He has called or emailed just about everyone else. I am mad that he is not giving our marriage top priority at this point. He acted like everything was just wonderful yesterday. He met me and the kids to run errands and eat lunch. He brought my oldest to a movie, because he knew I did not want to sit through this one. He is talking about all the things we are doing together coming up this summer. He was being affectionate. I was a witch to him yesterday. I fully admit it. I can't keep up with his mood swings and am tired of it. I don't know what I am going to do. He needs to schedule an appointment this week.

Missy

 
 
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In reply to: cl_igemini53182
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 11:45am

i get the whole mood swings thing too and i can't take it...i have lost it on him a couple times...i cannot take those mood swing things...ugh! we are the ones with BP! and that is the whole freaking problem, i guess...

i am not going to let him break me this time...i can't. i won't...somehow.

thank god, i remembered about EAP at work...free therapy for a while, til i can afford it...first appt is thursday at 5 p.m.

sometimes he is loving, then other times he hates me. the point is, as i keep trying to tell him, ITS ALL VERY DIFFERENT THAN IT USED TO BE!!! GIANT RED FLAG.

i hate him too.

its not fair, ya know?

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In reply to: cl_igemini53182
Tue, 04-18-2006 - 12:00pm

they are very emotional and do have many mood swings, but won't admit it.


my dh has claimed he's going to quit drinking for awhile...I know he can make it a couple weeks (he did it when ds was born)...just not very confident for after that.

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Tue, 04-18-2006 - 12:02pm
see, that's just it...it should NOT be so hard...and that's the whole problem...