Another Update in my drama filled life
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| Tue, 05-09-2006 - 8:35am |
So, I get home yesterday and the cops are there again...the GIRL and her DH are fighting again...she moves out...Eric is at my house, getting more stuff, cuz I told him I was moving out of my place by the end of this month, somewhere. He is all nicey nice, telling me he'd help, etc. He leaves. She finally finishes moving, one of her other male friends is helping...apparently she has a lot of male friends, and she is staying with one of them. So, I go outside to let my dog out for a minute around 8ish...go down to the road, and her dh is there and he asks me if everything is okay...I say yes. He says all HECK broke loose last night after he talked to me. Apparently, the GIRL and Eric were angry with him for talking to me, and they both let him know it. He told me a few more things that would confirm some things for me...and I just said whatever. the GIRL said I was cool with her...WTF. I better not ever see her again. EVER. So I finally get in the house, and I called Eric's phone...voicemail...first message, I told him I was going to call the GIRL and talk to her, etc., second voicemail, I said never mind, I wouldn't stoop to that level period. That I hoped they had a good life. Something like that. He called me later on, hadn't gotten my messages yet. I told him what they said...he got MAD that the GIRLs dh talked to me again...I said, well, he was in the road, not at the house, so he has every right to be there...he said, I gotta go, I'll call you back...he didn't. I called him back at 2 a.m. just to see if he would answer the phone, he did. I said why didn't you call me back...I don't remember what answer I got. I then said, oh, okay...bye then.
I'm SICK of all of it...I know I have to do the no contact thing...and I will. I want him to KNOW what he has lost and what he has 'gained'. HA. HAHAHAHAHAHA. Its actually very funny to tell the truth. If you could SEE HER...LISTEN TO HER...OMG. Its like me minus about a million.
Anyway, that's my update. Can't wait to move. By the end of the month, for sure.

(((((((((keli))))))))))) I know your mind is on a million different things right now, but you need to focus on support for you and Mike. You need to get a temporary custody/support order signed by a judge. Call around and find an attorney that might be willing to help you out either with a free consult or one who can tell you how to do this on your own. Or even better, one that will do it pro bono. But you need to get on it. He has walked away from any and all responsibility for you and ds. Wrong!!!! He needs to support your son and you until you can get on your feet.
As for the girl and her h, just do your best to ignore them. You made the right choice in not calling her. That will only add fuel to your fire and you don't need that right now. Her h is fishing because he wants confirmation (I think) from you about an affair. Let him keep fishing and ignore him.
You are right when you say you are a million times better than that girl! Just keep repeating that to yourself when you start to get discouraged. You ARE better, stronger and nicer among other things. So hang in there my friend. Keep posting here. You know we're here for you.
Love You,
Traci