Hey Missy...I hope you're just busy trying to get things rolling...our situations are a bit different, but our hurt is just the same. Know I think of you all the time, and WE WILL BE BETTER THAN OKAY. I promise. Have to be, right?
I'm here. I am surviving. Sometimes I am doing really good, sometimes not so good. I met with the attorney on Monday and started the process for filing for divorce and temporary relief (money for the kids now). H is being a jerk and I don't even know him anymore. He had paid bills on my credit card, without authorization on the card. I have no idea what he is doing with the cash he gets, speculation on that gets scary. He is deeply in debt, but luckily my name is not on most of it. It is amazing how much he has changed. I will admit he has been a jerk for a long time now but he is now just flat out lying to everyone and acting psychotic. I wish I could find a way for him just not to be involved at all with the kids. I know that is not fair but he is just so hard to deal with. I wish I could tell you all the crap he he has done lately but this would just get so long. Thanks for checking up on me. My mom leaves in the morning so I am sure I will be around more after that.
As for my bp, Saturday night I went to bed at like 4 and had a big ol pity party for myself. On Sunday I was still extremely depressed but right now I am still able to fight it off for the kids. They don't like me crying and stuff and I still have enough control. So keep me in your thoughts please.
I do the same thing...the pity parties...my ds is 15 and won't put up with them though...sometimes that good, but a lot of times it makes me cry more! But I'm glad he is tough on me...
My dh is evil and I don't know him anymore either...found out a WHOLE bunch of lies, and he is STILL denying everything.
Oh well...we have to deal with what we have somehow. When I find out how, I will tell you. And if YOU figure it out, you please tell me.
Hey Missy...I hope you're just busy trying to get things rolling...our situations are a bit different, but our hurt is just the same. Know I think of you all the time, and WE WILL BE BETTER THAN OKAY. I promise. Have to be, right?
Love you,
Keli
I'm here. I am surviving. Sometimes I am doing really good, sometimes not so good. I met with the attorney on Monday and started the process for filing for divorce and temporary relief (money for the kids now). H is being a jerk and I don't even know him anymore. He had paid bills on my credit card, without authorization on the card. I have no idea what he is doing with the cash he gets, speculation on that gets scary. He is deeply in debt, but luckily my name is not on most of it. It is amazing how much he has changed. I will admit he has been a jerk for a long time now but he is now just flat out lying to everyone and acting psychotic. I wish I could find a way for him just not to be involved at all with the kids. I know that is not fair but he is just so hard to deal with. I wish I could tell you all the crap he he has done lately but this would just get so long. Thanks for checking up on me. My mom leaves in the morning so I am sure I will be around more after that.
As for my bp, Saturday night I went to bed at like 4 and had a big ol pity party for myself. On Sunday I was still extremely depressed but right now I am still able to fight it off for the kids. They don't like me crying and stuff and I still have enough control. So keep me in your thoughts please.
Missy
I do the same thing...the pity parties...my ds is 15 and won't put up with them though...sometimes that good, but a lot of times it makes me cry more! But I'm glad he is tough on me...
My dh is evil and I don't know him anymore either...found out a WHOLE bunch of lies, and he is STILL denying everything.
Oh well...we have to deal with what we have somehow. When I find out how, I will tell you. And if YOU figure it out, you please tell me.
Love you.