I am gonna go even more mental !!!!!!!!

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I am gonna go even more mental !!!!!!!!
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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 8:53am

Ok I hvae come to determine that mylife must be like as the world turns or something. Dh gave his notice and they are trying to convince him to stay. He called his supervisor on his boston office and he will do anyting short of giving him a raise. (cause he cant its not his department) His supervisor told him to call the head office in CA and see if they will give him a raise. So now we are in limbo un till about 11am that when the California office opens. Personally I dont think they will, but it would be good if they do. Then I can keep my durango and my job..YIPPY!!!! But I know I am being selfish.

I do think think money wise it would be better at the other job, but if they match what the other job is offering then he would stay. I got up early to get ready to stop into my job and give notice but now I am on hold. I want to get it in ASAP so the way when my 2 wks are up I will still have a bout 3 days left with DH before he goes to LA. But the longer I wait the more it puts my 2 wks at the day he is to leave. I just dont know if i am coming or going today.

As for dad he stay at his girlfirends sat and sun night. SO I had the house all to my self last night. I forgot how much I appreciated it. I feel bad but moving him in with us is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I havent told him yet about DH's decision with the new job, cause I am sure he has some sortof speech tucked away just for that occasion. THe I hope you will be able to save money or Istayed at my job for 25ys why cant steve. I know I will hear something, so I have developed andautomated reaction now....YES DAD< YOU ARE RIGHT DAD....LMAO I am not sure which is hard liveing with you parent while you are and adult and they still think you are 12 or when I had to take care of my mother while she was terminal. At leaset there was no judgement and nothing but pure love all the time.

Jo

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 8:57am

well if your life is as the world turns, then mine is days of our lives !!!

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 11:18am

Jo -


I hope that the news from CA is good and that your dh gets the pay-raise that would allow him to stay there instead of having to go to LA.


I hear ya on the soap opera. There are days where my life feels like one as well. It will all work out the way it's meant to though.


Hang in there sweetie and keep us posted.


Hugs,
Traci

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Mon, 05-15-2006 - 12:54pm
you keep saying how selfish you are.
is it selfish to want to make some money of your own & to get out to a job you like a few times a week?
um....i really don't think so.
i wasn't considered selfish when i secretly took back my summer job from the girl i had practically handed it to.
i'm doing a show all the way in queens & even tho i was promised this wouldn't happen,my husband & kids have had to ferry me & this other girl back & forth thru almost the whole thing...paying tolls each way.
no one considered me selfish.
so please....take that word OUT of your vocabulary..................