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He just texted me so upset
| Thu, 03-03-2011 - 1:38pm |
I was having such a good day, just finished my lunch and there goes my phone four words "you must be done" why now 17 days and now?

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Like he doesn't know that already....of course you are done. He's fishing and it's up to you that his bait doesn't catch a thing. Why isn't he blocked on your cell phone?
I am seeing a pattern here lately that you newbies are not doing EVERYTHING possible to blocks these fishermen.
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Well, if you really can't block him then lets reframe this.
Good, he knows your done.
LFH, you and I are definitely in the same boat! What a rotten and unexpected twist this day took, huh? I'm glad you got the tears out of your system and were able to salvage the rest of your day as best you could. I've been slowly trying to shake my exAP's fishing attempt too.
You know what just makes me so mad? That we're forced to deal with this crap at work. Or when we're on dates with our SO/Hs. Or really just whenever, at JAM's whim. It's manipulative. It's just his way of waving his arms around and shouting, "hey, look at me! I'm still here! Pay attention to me!" And then we'll be sitting unassumingly at our desk (well, in my case anyway), trying to do our job, and then we get horribly, irrevocably sidetracked by these juvenile antics. Sorry, that turned into a huge rant! But I guess I just channeled my sadness earlier into anger over exAP's persistent mission to keep me on his string, on HIS calendar.
Hi LFH
I know it seems this way, but remember how we behaved during the affair, the messages we sent about what was acceptable. Now that we are outta the fog we can see how screwed up it ALL is. Can't focus on being angry at "how dare they" not respect our boundaries, our partners etc .... isn't that what we were doing ALL along. NOT respecting our own families, their families etc ... introspection.
We were ALL manipulative - the good thing is that you're starting to recognize it for what it is, and not confusing it will love or care.
TU.
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