Wanted to share this with you

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Registered: 11-16-2010
Wanted to share this with you
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Mon, 03-07-2011 - 6:55pm

When a big change occurs in your life it forces you to change direction. Sometimes the new path may not be easy, but you can be absolutely certain that there is magnificence for you on the new path. You can be absolutely certain that the new path contains things that you could not have experienced otherwise.

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Registered: 10-14-2010
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 12:01am

Thanks for sharing this Vanessa.

I watched that cheesy, "he's just not into you" movie...but LOVED this ending "moral" from it.

Every movie we see, every story we're told IMPLORES us to wait for it, the 3rd act twist. the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule;
Sometimes were so focused on finding our happy ending that we dont learn how to read the signs how to tell the ones who Love us from the ones who DONT. The ones who'll stay from the ones who'll leave.
Maybe this happy ending doesnt include the guy.
Maybe its YOU on your own.
Picking up the pieces and starting over Framing yourself up for something BETTER in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just MOVING ON.
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 11-16-2010
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 1:55am

I totally agree with you Michelle

We most certainly are conditioned by society to believe that we will live happily ever after once we are paired off, no wonder we all fear being alone, when we've had this notion forever embedded into our subconsciousness. One thing i have learnt is that happiness comes from within, not from any other individual. We come into this world on our own and we will leave it on our own, whether we are paired off or not this does not predicate our true happiness.

All my love

V888

xxxx