i'm overwhelmed

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Registered: 03-25-2003
i'm overwhelmed
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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 5:42pm
by stuff i cannot do anything about.sick to my stomach,nightmare & headache inducing stressed.
i feel like a sponge & i'm just absorbing & obsessing over this stuff instead of saying to myself something trite like..."what will be will be"
so i always feel as tho i've said or done the wrong thing.
i don't know why i'm posting.i guess i think if i purge it'll disappear.
i'm losing it big time.i'm no good out in the world.not at all not at all not at all not at all.
i'm a freaking freak is what i am.
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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 9:00pm

Suziq.3

Sorry that you are feeling this way. It sounds like you might have a lot going on right now. Posting your concerns may help you feel better. Life in general can be very overwhelming but when you start that negative ball rolling it can pick up speed very quickly. I wish I had some guaranteed solution for you. All I can suggest is to talk about it and do your best to focus on some positives in your life. You could also try cognitive reframing (taking a negative thought and disputing it, basically).

Do you have friends or family who could lend support? We are all here to listen and support you, too.

Please take care of yourself. Post some more information so we can help you feel better. I am sure that you are capable of doing fine out in the world. Maybe you just need a little extra guidance right now.

Hugs,
Peg

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 8:12am

okay you...you are NOT a freak...okay, well, maybe we are BOTH freaks...but so freaking what!!! i love you ...you are a wonderfully talented beautiful person...and you said it in your own post..."things you can't do anything about" those are the WORST kinds of things to deal with. UGH!

i was wondering where you were, miss thang and i want you to keep posting and purging it all out...i'm going to do the same...i keep everything in way too much and then expect myself to feel okay. ain't gonna happen.

we're all here in this damn stupid thing together. don't disappear on me again, okay?

love and hugs,

keli

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 9:06am

You are not a freak !!!


Post as much as you need to, its what we are here for....and you are right, its things you can't do anything about..and they can be the worst sometimes...don't let it win, not this time.


we are here for you...it will be ok.


big hugs and much love

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 9:24am

Suzi, I wish I had some magic remedy for you, heck for both of us. I do know how you feel though. I'm there right now too with a good dose of depression mixed in.


I realize this isn't terribly helpful, but I wanted to let you know you are definitely not alone feeling the way you do. Keep posting though. Let us know how you are doing.


Hugs,
Traci

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 12:05pm

You are NOT a freak!

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Tue, 06-13-2006 - 8:27pm

Suzi, YOU ARE NOT

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