I changed my number

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Registered: 11-16-2010
I changed my number
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Tue, 03-08-2011 - 10:09pm

If any of you were familiar with my story, my XAP would get through to me on my cell phone calling via various numbers, and yes every text/call would shake me up and bring in new hurts, I avoided changing my number until now, as that particular number had been used for my business and was established for over 11 years.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2011
Tue, 03-08-2011 - 11:25pm

What a courageous thing to do Vanessa. Must be a wonderful feeling to have cut yourself free from that last string. Way to go!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 12:15am
I am so SO happy to read this news today. We MUST remember that BLOCKING all avenues of support allows us to heal, to breathe again. I wish you NOTHING but the best and look forward to hearing about your continued healing journey.

with care,

TU.
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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 1:04am

SMART COOKIE!!!!!

High 5 you!

Put another Brick in that Wall, Vanessa.

Isn't it a TREMENDOUS SENSE of genuine happiness you feel now?

<3,

M

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 4:46am

It is Kat, i truly feel a sense of freedom now,.

V888

xxxxx

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 4:48am
Thank you for your continuous support, you have helped me incredibly TU.

V888
xxxxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 4:59am
It sure is Michelle, he can't get to me anymore, he doesn't know where i live, he doesn't know where my children go to school, i have a virtual office, and i have changed where i grocery shop. V888 does not live there anymore!!!!

V888
xxxxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 8:04am
So happy for you. I too had to change my number and it was so wonderful. I can not tell you how much it was worth it....

not raining on your parade but I just wanted to make sure you do not assume that your safe from a dday simply cuz the number was changed. Dday's are always a possibility.

Back to celebrating!!
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 8:39am
Woo-hoo! V 888 has left the building. ;-) Well, you know what I mean. You have vacated the premises which had that smelly fishing pond outback....good for you.

Nothing changes until we do.

((Hugs))
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 02-26-2011
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 10:36am
Wow Iddy, I loved that..... "nothing changes until we do". This really hit home for me today. I wrote it out and put it on my desk. As always, thanks for your words of wisdom. : )
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Registered: 04-01-2010
Wed, 03-09-2011 - 10:54am

Dearest Vanessa. I know you didn't want to change that number for business reasons, so what a huge thing you've done to protect yourself!! What a pain in the butt to have to do all that, but I can't tell you how much I admire your strength and resolve to do whatever necessary to keep yourself out of harm's way. Bravo!!!

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.

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