Confused

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Registered: 04-27-2006
Confused
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 8:51am

Again, I am having problems with sex with my bf. I hate getting this personal but who else can I talk to besides my tdoc. Last night

     ~ Tina ~

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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: a_new_me394
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 9:39am

Tina,

BTDT. Its the meds, most likely...ALONG WITH the sa stuff...and the stress. You are thinking so much about the SA stuff, that its bound to cause a reaction.

Prozac is KNOWN for causing sexual dysfunction...as are many a/d's.

When I was with Eric, I couldn't have sex sometimes too...it would totally and completely disgust me...but it didn't mean I didn't love him. The abuse issues come up from nowhere...a memory, even if you are only SUBCONCIOUSLY remembering it, will cause those emotions and cause you to want to BOLT!

I think maybe you need to give yourself a break...not pressure yourself so much to figure this one out. Just keep working with your Tdoc and go from there. Billy will understand, I mean, come on...ya know?

If you keep thinking about it, and over analyzing it, it will get worse. I know that's hard to do. Believe me, I know.

I'll be thinking of you on Monday.

Love you,

Keli

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Registered: 04-06-2005
In reply to: a_new_me394
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 11:05am

I'm so sorry you are going thru this...I would agree that its the meds...lamictal did the same thing to me !!

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Registered: 04-27-2006
In reply to: a_new_me394
Fri, 06-16-2006 - 12:22pm

You guys are right. I may be being hard on myself, but this is just new to me right now. I will talk to pdoc in a couple weeks when I see him and ask about the meds. He will probably say: it isn't the meds because you would have had this problem before now. I wasn't supposed to see him until July but my tdoc wasn't comfortable with that and had the receptionist schedule me for the 28 of June. Tdoc said my Li needs to be monitored before that because it is a new med. I told tdoc I hope pdoc doesn't get mad about us upping the date, she said he will get over it if he does...lol.


Keli- I know I have had the SA on my mind more and even reading a book to heal from it so I am sure it is bringing up some deep emotions.


Donna- You know I need to talk to Billy about this and ask him if there is away I can signal him during sex to relieve himself. I think he goes on thinking it is making me feel good and normally it would but now it is messing with my head.


Thank You my friends


Love U


Tina




     ~ Tina ~