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at the beginning of my ending
| Fri, 03-11-2011 - 4:54am |
Hello
I am at the end, can i share my journey? sorry its such a long post i need to get it out.
The Start
I was newly divorced putting my life together, MM contacts me out of blue, 20yrs ago we had holiday romance, i forgot about him, he never did, had been looking for me all this time, he found me on a social network but did nothing as i said i was happily married, when he saw i was then divorced he contacted me to tell me he had always loved me, always thought about me, and wanted to say the words he never did 20yrs ago. He is married, depressed, unfulfilled, jobless and health issues. His 18yr marrige was solid but mundane with a lack of closeness both sexually and emotionally.

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No contact is the only way to go, this relationship and this man are very toxic. If he can track you on the internet shut down all avenues. Since the police are involved are there orders of protection in place? This relationship sounds scary and like it could escalate to worse levels and you should protect yourself.
it is 7 days of total NC
he doesnt have my mobile number, is blocked (one of his email adresses anyway he has numerous) on email, and his landline and the mobile number he used to call me are blocked to my landline. he has numerous mobile sims.
please let me know what you guys think......im at my wits end here
thank you xx
Welcome to EAS, SS!
It sounds as if your life is in shambles and I am so sorry for what you are going through.
SS,
Welcome to endings and I hope you have taken some time to read our Healing Library. There are articles there about co-dependency and rebuilding your self esteem, ending toxic relatioships, tips for going NC (No contact), The stages of grief, and a ton more stuff to get you going....
I found it very difficult to read your post. I've watched soap operas with less trauma drama. :smileywink: You and your Xmm are Extremely and Dangerously toxic for one another, and this relationship needs to completely end. You both bring out the worst in each other, and you both also need counseling. His problems are not to be your concern though... You have to get well on your own, so
Hi Spiffy- Welcome to EAS.
Wow,
Hi SS!
Welcome to EAS.
Welcome....you have come to the right place if you really want to end your A.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Wishing you strength and serenity
Kat.
Hi Spiffy,
Welcome to EAS.
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