He is still fishing and still trying to keep himself in my head......

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He is still fishing and still trying to keep himself in my head......
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Fri, 03-11-2011 - 8:20pm

XMM came to my workplace for business earlier this week

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Registered: 02-02-2011
Wow he didn't even disguise it blech.
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Registered: 10-14-2010

serious dip stick.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 01-04-2010

fishing sucks! you've got the right perspective--him telling you he's "thinking of you" is not about you at all. its his way of keeping himself in your mind. wtf does "i have to eat out a lot" mean? is that a sexual reference, or are you supposed to feel sorry for him that he's getting take out all the time?

he sounds like he's in a sorry state, in need of some serious self examination. you my dear, have obviously come further than he has. im sorry he showed up at your office; my heart would pop out of my chest from pounding too hard if i saw my xAP at my office. you played it way cool, so give yourself credit for that, and remind yourself of this experience if you ever have days where you feel like fishing yourself!

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Registered: 11-16-2010

Hi Beachsunfun

TU posted the following succinct yet powerful excerpt when i first came here back in Nov '10, it was posted to her by Luvin, so i am passing it along,

"One thing that you have to keep reminding yourself....If he calls you, it's not because he left his W and wants to be with you....it's not because he loves you and can't live without you....it's not because he's so hurt and so concerned about your well-being. He's calling because he's selfish. He's calling to get his fix. He's calling to see if you still want him. He's calling because he doesn't respect you enough to let you live your life and find someone who will give you everything you deserve. He's calling b/c something's missing in his M and you were the filler."

V888

xxxxx

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Registered: 02-02-2011
vanessa
Thank you thank you thank you for posting that, I needed to hear that!
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Registered: 11-16-2010

You're welcome LFH,

The wisdom and insights offered on this board along with the kindness of people i will likely never meet, is just incredible. EAS has done more for me than T, I don't know where i would be without this forum.

V888
xxxxx


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V8888

IQ of room temperature? :)))))) Gave me a much needed giggle.

Love it!

Iggyxx

You are what you consistently do