I am so happy to find all of you!
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I am so happy to find all of you!
| Thu, 03-17-2011 - 9:39am |
I knew I wasn't the only one going through this, but had no idea how to find anyone. This is such a lonely thing to go through. It's not something you just want to go around talking about to everyone. So I have been going through this awful heartbreak with no way to let it out. Thank you all for being here!

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HI and Welcome!!
I'm guessing this is your first post as I don't recognize your moniker?
SB,
Welcome to our community, and I am happy that you found us if you have been struggling with this alone. Something as painful as ending an A needs to be shared with others who have experienced such a devastating experience,
How about introducing yourself, letting us know if your are M or S, how long your A was, and if you definitely ended it. This board is mainly for those who have made the decision to walk away from their affairs, so if you are still in the "trying to find the strength to do so" camp, then I would suggest you continue reading here, dive into the Healing Library that is filled with wisdom, insights, tips for NC, grieving stages, and many threads on how to start healing and getting yourself into a better place. If you don't know where it is, just look at the top of this forum where it says: JUMP TO: and you will see the sections that are offered. The Healing Library is one of them. Most newbies start out in the General section (where you posted) to let us know you are here and need support.
As soon as we know more about your story, the wonderful people on this board will jump in and offer you all the support you will need. You are no longer alone, so remember that. If you are having trouble with the acronyms like NC (No Contact), there is a list of abbreviations in the Healing Library.
Hope to hear more from you soon.
((Hugs))
Thank you for sharing your story.
Yes, EAS is a Godsend- I would have still been a wreck without the wonderful support here.
Rejection hurts. My xAP and I agreed to end our A, he returned to his xGF, and although he honored his end of NC, the coldness I felt from being abruptly cut off was like a physical punch to my stomach.
Be grateful you never had sex - it would have been much more difficult to be "rejected" after sharing your soul AND body.
But I'm afraid your A was not unique. My xAP and I had tons of things in common as well and he also said very sweet things to me, how I made him feel alive, blah blah.
But, it was an A - dishonest, secretive, hurtful . . .
Since you are a Believer, I will tell you to pray and ask God for strength. He hears you and will mend your broken heart, but you have to do a lot of work, too.
SB-
Yes, definetly be glad you didn't have sex. Nvr said it well as to why.
I just wish I could give you a big hug and tell you that it will be alright.
Thank you so much for the warm welcome and hugs. I cannot begin to show how grateful I truly am. You all have my love.
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