Update - It's Over

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Update - It's Over
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Wed, 07-19-2006 - 5:44pm
My bf arrived home drunk as heck last Saturday evening at 2 a.m. and informed me that he was going to start drinking again regularily and told me that he was entitled to do so. Sunday we argued like crazy and I ended up crying yet again and he was screaming and throwing things. I told him that I would not tolerate his drinking. He told me last night that soon he will be moving back to his hometown and will hire a lawyer and fight his ex-wife for their children (my bf hasn't seen them in 3 years, his ex-wife says he shouldn't be around them, yet she's not perfect either, she sleeps around and my bf ended his marriage with her due to her cheating). I wished him well and am looking toward the future and planning and setting goals for myself. My bf has indicated that once all is settled with his ex-wife (it could take months) he'd like to get back together with me. I never answered him. I plan on getting on with my life.
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Registered: 05-02-2006
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 6:11pm

Sunshine, that sounds like a good solid plan you have. I'm sorry things didn't work out with you and your b/f but it sounds like your decision was definitely in your best interest. Keep us posted. And keep posting here. We're always here for support.


Peace, Love & Light,
Traci

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Registered: 04-06-2005
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 9:48am

I'm sorry things didn't work out, but it sounds like its for the best.

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Registered: 03-29-2005
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 8:33pm
One bit of advise... If you even think of going back with that loser, or your life will be just that. I grew up with fighting and arguing as a child, and I swore I would not tolorate it in my lifetime. As for him trying to fight for his kids, what kind of life do you think they would have with a drunken father who doesn't give them the love and compassion children need? You keep on going, and do not look back!