Peeks at progress
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Peeks at progress
| Tue, 03-22-2011 - 8:14pm |
Every once in a while, you get little peeks at progress that help restore your faith that you WILL get through this.
I came back to work Monday feeling strong, but I didn't know how strong until I was tested. xMM fished, asking if he could please send me an email saying "all of the things he never said." I said "no" and neatly ended the conversation. But he wouldn't take no for an answer. "Please." "I have so much to say." I ignored all of it. NC, NC, NC. After attempting to end this A at LEAST 5-6 times over the past 2 years, I can tell you for a fact that he does NOT have anything to say. Neither of us do. And even if we did, it wouldn't matter.
I told him NOT to email me, which

Bravo! You are asserting your power now, which is something we've always had within us. It's ego fueled curiosity and a weakness for attention that lands us in hot water when we respond to their BS, but when we've gotten scalded enough, we finally learn how to say, "NO!"
Proud of you for putting a much needed damper on this manipulative attempt at trying to get your attention. This is definitely progress!!!
((Hugs))
Yay, Silver!!!