You guys were right..again
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You guys were right..again
| Wed, 03-23-2011 - 11:16am |
Thanks to some much needed advice, I am officially LC with XAP. I was really struggling with whether or not it would work with us keeping some type of friendship. I realized that it is only a matter of time and things could get really ugly again. As expected, he is noticing that I'm not engaging with him. The last 2 days, I haven't bothered with him at all. I am noticing that he is spending more time " casually" walking by my work area, glancing at me. I don't even acknowledge it, even though it's hard to ignore. I am seeing much more clearly now what a mistake it was thinking he mattered. I could really care less about his fiancé, or the OTHER woman he is sleeping with ( yes, he decided that I needed to know he is still cheating...but with someone else..what a prize he is...ugh! ) I finally see him for the JAM he is. Surprisingly, I'm not hurting. It is just a matter of fact. We did it, it's over. Now I have to reclaim my RL.

Man, not to focus anything on _him_, but ew! what tool!
It's over. We cannot be friends. We were not lovers who ended a relationship - our relationship was wrong at it's very base and core with nothiing good or WORTH salvaging. Do we REALLY want to be FRIENDS with these guys?
One day you will be so very grateful that you never ended up together.
Life is too short to be lived in the darkness of self-generated shadows.
Hugs,
TU.