A discovery today...

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Registered: 04-05-2010
A discovery today...
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Wed, 03-23-2011 - 4:28pm

Hi ladies,

Just wanted to share a little light that came on for a moment today (baby steps right?) It has been an extremely rough couple weeks for H and I with lots of accusations coming FROM ME, yelling, silent treatment for days, all the messy stressful crap!!! I haven't slept past 3am for 3 days straight and had to leave work today and come home...just an absolute mess! So my H came home from work at 1 this afternoon and we had the most incredible talk for 2 hours about so much... I cried, he was amazing, I LISTENED with an open heart and mind.

Downside: The whole time he spoke, my mind would fill with such shame and guilt and hatred for what I have done to myself and him and my marriage. (He knows nothing of the A) He said to me...(short version)

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Registered: 10-16-2010
Wed, 03-23-2011 - 9:52pm

Wow heart,

This sounds fantastic!