Feeling so much better thanks to this board

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Feeling so much better thanks to this board
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Thu, 03-24-2011 - 12:00pm

I just wanted to post a quick update and thank all the ladies for the great advice.
Unfortunately Im not able to visit this site as much as I would like to. Few weeks ago I just started LC and guess was going through an anger period, I posted how I wanted the APs spouse to

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009

WG,

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2009

BUMP..Everything that Iddy said!!

A gentle reminder that NC=No New Hurts and looking at his wife's FB is a form of breaking NC.

BE the change that you want to see in the world! Life loves me and I love life! <3
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-12-2008

Thanks for your response Iddy.
That is a really good question, would I still be in the A if I didnt see his W's FB page?
This caught me off guard, and I have to be honest, I probably still would be. But because I made up my mind to end it, and have been reading so much here, I do understand now that my reason for ending should be that we were hurting other innocent people. I am truly working on this. I do know why I was in the A, looking back I understand why I allowed this to happen.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009

WG,

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Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010

WG welcome!

I so much can identify with your feelings of reading his W's post to FB.

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Registered: 03-24-2011
Thu, 03-24-2011 - 11:31pm

Hi, I am new and I am not sure where to post my situation but this seems like a good place to start since I am really feeling so much better thanks to this board.

I ended a four month affair (only one month physical) 2 weeks ago, well I ended it during a texting conversation but tried to backpedal right away but he was done with me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009

TTBT,

Welcome to the board. I just wrote you a response and then saw you had already started a new discussion so I will respond to that one.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha