I've been married 24 years, and we don't kiss passionately. I've mentioned to DH a few times, and he will do it if I ask him to, but we almost seem like we've "grown" out of it. When I was in the A I was looking for that passion, but xAP didn't kiss much either, DH and I hug ALL the time. A nice tight embrace just makes my day : )
Sorry AAI, I'm still too raw and too close to my ending to be able to contribute to this thread, without triggering a whole heap of memories and emotions that threaten to take me right back to square one. I'm pleased you're finding your MC helpful.
This was an interesting thread to read, but may I suggest to you and to other married posters that threads like this (H and M talk stuff ) should be posted in the Married OW/OM section of the board. That way us single gals can decide if we want to go there or not. This also applies to the single OW/OM when they want to talk about dating, etc. Married peops don't really need to read about that stuff either. I know that many of you forget to scroll down to those sections, and this is why there are very few NEW posts in them, but that is the purpose for the different sections.
The "General" section should be for intros and discussions re. affair questions/issues/healing and sadly, relapses.
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GOOD MORNING TO YOU!!!
I agree with your therapist that we need to stay connected to our spouses.
Aside from intercourse, I think kissing is the most
Dear Asking,
From the male perspective I have to tell you it isn't the different for us.
You mean those deep, long warm kisses where you are trying to crawl inside each other through the lips? We used to call them make-out sessions.
I had often wondered in my life how I did that and didn't move on to sex quickly.
With xAP, I now understand that feeling of closeness, the warmth of each other, and the softness.
Yeah, it was good with her.
My DW thinks that I am only trying to get sex if I try anything like that with her. She is content with a peck.
My marriage
We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
((KAT))
I'm so sorry if this thread affected you in that way.
Acting,
Thanks!
AA!~
This was an interesting thread to read, but may I suggest to you and to other married posters that threads like this (H and M talk stuff ) should be posted in the Married OW/OM section of the board. That way us single gals can decide if we want to go there or not. This also applies to the single OW/OM when they want to talk about dating, etc. Married peops don't really need to read about that stuff either. I know that many of you forget to scroll down to those sections, and this is why there are very few NEW posts in them, but that is the purpose for the different sections.
The "General" section should be for intros and discussions re. affair questions/issues/healing and sadly, relapses.
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