Addiction at its finest...
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Addiction at its finest...
| Mon, 03-28-2011 - 11:37am |
This weekend in church we discussed addictions and why we engage in them (not just to drugs and alcohol), addictions to relationships, toxic drama, etc.


I love the 'Addiction to the 4 A's'. That is EXACTLY my issue.
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What a great turn of phrase Lolly!
Wow Lolly you have really helped me tonight by naming those four A's!
I think all of us experienced the real love, and timing issues - Since my xAP was an old first love - I really did fall into that trap of it being "destined love" - lol amazing what 9 months will do for that perspective! You will get through - and the renting headspace to the shouldacouldawouldas - well that is a choice. In order for me to work out some of my issues, I started blogging - kind of like getting my stuff out into the universe so I didn't have to hold it all in side. It's amazing how cathartic it is. Keep writing! Getting it out - helps to develop that callous over the whys and then you can realize without any anger or malice - the who cares?
It's all our issue! BY human nature, motivation is based on the 4A's! (See you are HUMAN and make human mistakes!) The trick is to use the 4A's for ourself, to motivate us and supply ourselves with the hutzpah to do it all ourselves! :) Keep up the work girl!
And thanks - your fighting nice post gave me much food for thought, and actually made it to two of my entries (blog and journal) because you hit that nail RIGHT on the head. I suppose it's part of the 4A's - being nice and wanting to "seem" (ie, be validated) as a good person. (Tho I had to ask what chuffed meant!) Thanks for the inspiration!