Well....... Blechhhhh

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Well....... Blechhhhh
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Tue, 03-29-2011 - 6:51am
Yep, have nothing else to say really.

Feeling flat, feeling bored and challenge-less, not looking forward to anything, just day-in-day-out.

These are the days I hate... And I feel the end of the A the most. Ugh!!!

Iggyx
You are what you consistently do
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Tue, 03-29-2011 - 7:07am

Hey Iggy-

I'm in the Blechhh with you today.

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Tue, 03-29-2011 - 7:09am
I'm in the boat today too - tho it's because I'm sick. I dislike allergy season with a passion - however in the mode of I am choossing happiness - I'm glad to get through it in order to see the wold unfold in bright blooms again :) (It's all about the silver lining). Tonight my girls and I are working on crafts, so at least I have that to look forward to!
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Tue, 03-29-2011 - 9:52am

Thanks for sharing this HALT method, Heart.

I love little practical tips for self-awareness!!!

<3

Iggy & Lolly

Im sorry youre feeling the blechs.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 5:17am

Ok so 24 hours later- still feeling blechhhhh

With my flat and yukky mood has come tons of thoughts of exAP and the A.

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 03-30-2011 - 7:35am
Iggy,

It's okay to feel sad but feeling this way over XAP is even more sad. As you mentioned, his family was there for him, as it should be. Why are you looking in the rear view mirror again? What is missing in your own life that is causing you to reflect back on stuff that has no more purpose in your life?

I hope you turn some of that reflective energy inward and determine where the void inside of you stems from. It has nothing to do with XAP and everything to do with you.

((Hugs))

PS Are you in T? Sorry, I forget who is and who isn't around here. :(
Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 6:26pm
Hey gorgeous Iddy

Yes exactly!!! Why do I care at all? He is not my partner, he has support and love (despite his previous claims of being in a loveless marriage), and I have a full and busy life which should keep me busy!!

Yes I start T today in fact- finally!!!!! I'm nervous but sooooo in need of it. I need to stop looking in my rear view mirror!!

Iggy
You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 11-22-2009
Wed, 03-30-2011 - 7:40pm

Yay (((YOU)))

Starting T today? How timely.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 8:02pm
Hey I got a mate out of you:) we will "Aussie-fy" you yet:)
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Wed, 03-30-2011 - 10:55pm

IGGY I gotta say I must be one cold biatch becasue I laughed out loud at the statement of your exAP's "impotence" and 'booty call' to check that diagnosis out with you.

Girlie, that was another LINE from the MM book of one liners if there was ever one.

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Thu, 03-31-2011 - 3:32am

Hi Melinda

Thanks for responding, and yep thats what he said alright :)

You are spot on too- his business is his to worry about. I have no right or need to 'send him love' from my corner. I love how you said that :)

Much love

Iggy

You are what you consistently do