did something else it only took 2 years

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Registered: 03-25-2003
did something else it only took 2 years
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Sun, 08-20-2006 - 5:11pm
to do.this is a big deal.i'm the girl who can't say no & this happily married man has been persuing me only when he has the itch & cannot understand when i don't drop everything to make time for him.
he is VERY good at playing with my head & came on strongest after my well known love affair that almost destroyed my family & also after my hospitalization.
he'll call when my family is surrounding me & talk dirty.
he'll show up at my door at anytime of day.
he'll show up at my job.
my tdoc told me what to say & i couldn't for the life of me tell you why i just couldn't.
was i worried what he'd think of me?
i honestly truly didn't even care for this guy in the least but did whatever he told me to.if i had a good reason why he should leave me alone he had a better reason why i wasn't allowing myself happiness.
it was sick .no arguments.& i was guilty as heck for allowing it to happen.
today he called my cell at 11:00 on a sunday.
(the nerve!)my dd answered & gave me the phone.i told him never to call me again...never to stop by my home again & that i had NO ROOM in my life for this.before he answered i said i was driving & i had to go.
you know what????
who cares WHAT he thinks of me.i feel a weight off my shoulders.big time.i love it.
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Registered: 10-23-2004
Mon, 08-21-2006 - 7:55am

Yeah Suzi! Good for you. I'm glad you feel the weight lifted off your shoulders.

Morgaine

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Mon, 08-21-2006 - 11:25am

You go girl!

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Registered: 05-22-2006
Mon, 08-21-2006 - 3:46pm
I'm sorry, but it sounds to me like he is stalking you. If you can go to your dh about this man, I would go the police - immediately.
Good Luck!! Kelli





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