Gratituesday

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Registered: 08-25-2010
Gratituesday
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Tue, 04-05-2011 - 3:34pm

Normally I would post a blurb about how sharing the little things (growth, celebrations, etc.) no matter how insignificant, is important during the recovery process of the A.

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Registered: 01-24-2011
Tue, 04-05-2011 - 5:42pm
Lolly, I'm grateful for the lack of drama too.

But mostly I'm grateful to be out of the fog. This morning my husband said to me "Lately I'm feeling a million times better about myself. Thank you for the effort you're putting into our relationship." Such painful irony. I used my H's insecurity, low mood, and neediness to justify my A, when really it was my A that was destroying the strong, confident, happy man I married. It feels so good to have him back and to have me back too.

So I'm sending out a happy, warm, grateful hug to every single one of my fogbusting friends at EAS. Onwards and upwards!

Kat :)
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Registered: 03-17-2010
Tue, 04-05-2011 - 10:00pm

Hi Lolly,

I am grateful that even if xap will be in town next month my feeling is flat.

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Registered: 04-11-2010
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 4:01am

Im grateful that today I feel like Im turning a corner.

The A just seems so distant today. When I think of exAP today, I feel.... ok...... not totally indifferent..... but certainly no pain or longing (not even remotely)

So for this small progress.... I am sooooo grateful.

Iggyx

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 01-24-2011
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 4:08am
Yay Iggy! That is great news. :)
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Registered: 04-11-2010
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 5:00am

Well thank ya Miss Kat:)

You are what you consistently do
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Wed, 04-06-2011 - 9:20am
I am just well, entirely grateful for my life.

For the coffee i am drinking, the lap top I am typing on, the sound of my puppy chewing something he ought not to, the lightly falling snow in APRIL, the peacefulness that now fills the spaces of MY home.

Today, I can see my blessings in all their incredible amazingness.

TU.