Broke NC

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Registered: 04-06-2011
Broke NC
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Thu, 04-14-2011 - 9:17am

I'm sick about it and can't believe I did it.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2009
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 9:29am

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You are the only one who can answer that. I'll give you a few ideas though...

1) You had a weak moment and instead of coming here, you took it upon yourself to see what would happen.

2) You needed a fix. How did that work for you? Did he give you what you thought you needed?

3) You aren't fully comprehending what being "selfish" means.

4) It was more important to fish than to rededicate yourself back to your M and family.

So, work with those and let us know why YOU think you did this to yourself. And more importantly, are you back to NC again?

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 9:57am
I know you are mad, disappointed in yourself and feeling very low. Please believe me when I tell you it gets WORSE every time you break NC. I am on my 3rd try here, and I never knew something could get so ugly and pathetic and down right stripping me of any self respect I had left. YOU can do this. If there is ANY avenue you have left open for contact, close it. Every time I left a small opening he or I could get through. NOT this time. Trust the women on this board who are way farther along in their journey and do EVERYTHING they say. You WILL 100% get hurt again if you break NC. That is proven my every member on this board.
Pick yourself up, start again, and don't look back. Save yourself. Your worth it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 10:30am

Genevieve-

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-26-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 11:13am
Great analogy, heartache!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 1:44pm

Thank you for your advice and support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 1:55pm
genevieve,

okay, now that you're done kicking yourself, re-gather your strength and recommit. That's the best use of your energy.

Next time you will know to come here rather than giving into your weakness. Addictions are hard to break, but not impossible.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Thu, 04-14-2011 - 3:35pm
You can do this Genevieve and we WILL help you. Post here in the weak moments and someone will steer you through. You have no other choice. WE can do this hun - I need you to believe this.

theyellowone xx

"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 11:28am

Hey Guys!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 11:30am
Well done Genevieve!

Good to hear from you. Still up and down with me but staying the course.

Take care xxx

"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2011
In reply to: genevieve22
Wed, 04-20-2011 - 11:38am

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