Silent Screams **triggers**
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Silent Screams **triggers**
| Thu, 01-04-2007 - 12:59pm |
Still no takers in the refinance of my house and my attorney hasn't called me back to discuss my other options, which I know are extremely limited, but I have questions I need answered--like how long I have before I have to be out, if there is no way to save it.
Needless to say my anxiety/depression is at the MAXX, trying to motivate myself to look for a place to live (since it's almost inevitable that I'm going to lose my house) and just can't do so, little alone face the daunting prospect of trying to pack and move.


((((((((((((Marci))))))))))))) i wish there was something i could do for you. i wish i could make the bank refinance your loan at the amount you need and i wish your attorney would call you. and most of all i wish you can save your house. i understand how daunting your task at hand is. while i do live at home with my mother, i know i could never survive on what i make outside of this house. we live in one of the most expensive areas in the entire u.s. so the cost of living is way up there. i've explored the option of moving out and all of the emotional baggage aside, there's just no way i could do it with three kids in tow. heck, there's no way i could do it alone, period. around here your average rent is at least 2000/mo, the average "starter" home sells in the 600,000 range, it's outragious. so i do understand your frustration, depression and anxiety. they are all very natural feelings to be having right now. i just wish i knew a way to make it all better for you. you deserve that. you deserve to keep your home. and why the stupid bank is being so idiotic is beyond me. but i'd be up their you know what's as often as i could be to make sure your papers don't get "lost in the shuffle." hang in there hon. you are loved here and we want to keep hearing from you.
love and hugs,
traci